For those of you that didn’t know, I chronicled my journey (some may call it a miraculous transformation), from out-of-control, live-by-the-seat-of-my-pants bachelor to becoming a first-time father not too long ago.
By sheer happenstance, I re-read portions of this diary today for the very first time since Nicky was born five months ago. It seems like ages in some ways and others, seems like yesterday! Looking back, I marvel at how I felt and evolved throughout this journey. Relating past expectations to current feelings, I know how I lucky I am to have my son. To use a cliché that probably only other parents truly understand, it was all worth it in the end!
Below, I am re-listing every single journal entry I wrote for Becoming a Dad for my friends who are currently awaiting their first and for any guy who endeavors to become a father themselves someday. Who knows, maybe some mommies out there might enjoy reading these journals as well.
- A Surprise Beginning
- Ninja Dagger Hormones
- The First Ultrasound
- Sympathy Emotions
- Running to make It
- Coming Home
- Painful Lesson Learned
- Fireworks & a Birthplace
- Find Out the Sex of our Baby
- A Chance Meeting
- Grandfather’s Revenge
- Nice Little Sundays
- Showing and Growing
- Accidents and Emergencies
- Bedtime Habits
- Putting Away Groceries
- His and Her Days
- Third Trimester Here we Come
- Labor Day Getaway
- How to Deal with Pregnancy Hormones
- Baby Registry Advice
- 50 First Days
- Baby Shower Pictures
- Gratitude
- Racing to the Finish Line
- Nicholas is Born!

This visit was a mixture of amazement and disappointment. The part I was down on was the lack of a 3-D ultrasound. As you can see by the picture of baby, we didn’t get the full picture of what our son looks like quite yet. I don’t know if he has mommy’s nose or dad’s facial structure, etc. Though I have a sneaking suspicion he’ll have his mother’s lips. And on top of all that, he was frowning!
The past eight months I’ve been blogging about everything that has to do with the ups and downs of becoming a first-time dad, and everything sideways too. From pregnancy hormones and car accidents to hospital visits and baby showers, I feel like I’ve written about almost everything. Now we can all relax. The big day is upon us and soon enough, you all will no longer have to hear all my non-stop ramblings. lol.






























