Becoming a Dad – Bedtime Habits

Currently at 23 weeks. 17 weeks to go.

Before you read on, listen. I feel like I owe you a warning. This post is going to be intimate. Not in the way that you might imagine (shame on you), but rather in a very personal sense in terms of habits as a couple. So if you’re not in the mood for that sort of thing right now, that’s okay. There are plenty of other pregnancy & childhood blogs worth reading.


If you’re still reading this, good. I’d like to tell you a quick bedtime story about mom-to-be and I. Just a small example of one of our habits as a couple. And if you’re in a relationship of your own, I know you’ll understand. After all, every couple has their quirks. This is one of ours.

My other half has developed a little bedtime routine for us. You might be wondering what I mean so I’ll give you the quick preface on our habits before I get to what I’m talking about.

1. I usually go to bed much later than her.
2. We both take our showers, brush our teeth, you know… all the normal stuff a little after dinner.
3. We both watch a little television or read before bed.

That’s where our similarities end. We’re completely different in terms of sleep schedules. To put it accurately, I like to stay up 2-3 hours later than she does. Always have.

Now here’s the nightly ritual I was talking about. Ever since just about month four, mom-to-be insists on me going to bed with her. Not to sleep necessarily but for me to ‘put her to bed.’ What this entails for me is crawling into bed after she’s done reading and soothing her to sleep. I run my fingers lightly down her back… the back of her neck… You know, that half massage, half petting thing. Sometimes I even entertain myself my drawing imaginary pictures or writing stories in invisible letters on her skin. I even made the mistake of telling her the other night that I write stuff like “I love you” on her back when I’m bored. Geez, now she’s trying to figure out what I’m writing every night. LOL. This is what I was talking about earlier when I said this post was going to be intimate. But it’s all quite sensual really, I guess. I know it seems silly but it really soothes mom-to-be. Thus, I don’t mind the sacrifice of my precious me-time so much.

The scary thing is that she’s gotten quite used to this routine. Whether by choice or not, my fear is that this routine isn’t going to go away. What the heck am I gonna do? And when the heck am I going to find the time to play my precious video games again? Sneaking out of bed after she falls asleep is getting to be such a chore. I guess I’ll have to gradually tone down the spoiling her bit and hope she gets weened off this habit of drifting off to sleep from touch. Or maybe I can develop more ninja ways of sneaking off for the next 60 years. I’m gonna figure this thing out somehow. Sigh.

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7 Comments on “Becoming a Dad – Bedtime Habits”

  1. Jesica Larson Fonville Says:

    my response to this is… welcome to fatherhood. you will be soothing a KIDDO every night to sleep the same way for many years… and sneaking off after they’ve fallen asleep. Thank your woman, she is preparing you for the many years to come of doing the same thing to your child.

  2. David Campbell Says:

    ray doesnt count ha ha

  3. Liz Talavera Says:

    Wow..she is spoiled! One of my best parts of the day is me and Rico’s bedtime routine and going to bed at the same time… we talk and laugh and share thoughts and events about our day…You should cherish these moments.. Noone likes to go to bed alone. 🙂

  4. Melynda Fox-Lieby Says:

    Wow! And to think, all I need to go to bed is an Ambien and a glass of wine! LOL

  5. Megan Says:

    love my bebe ❤

  6. Ricardo Talavera Says:

    try levitation, that is what i usually do. When liz falls asleep i levitate to my xbox and when done lavitate back to bed. it works!!

  7. Alaina Rivas Says:

    Lol to Melynda’s comment!

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